You know, there was a time when @mama-pepper wanted to be a dental hygienist. I told her to just focus on college and I would take care of all the bills. Then, we started having children, and we still haven't stopped.

Evaluating our true identities was key in restructuring our lives. We decided that first, we were children of God. Secondly, we were the spouses of one another. Thirdly, we were parents. Everything else came after those three for us.

We now realize that she will never be a dental hygienist, and we are okay with that.