Thanks x2. I agree. After going through the whole hospital thing, I've developed a bit of a wall there. It's frustrating. The last 3 years have been major Dad/Mom health things, and as the local child, I was the one there for 95% of it, and I've started associating family time as a gut-wrenching struggle because of it. I think more time elapsing from all the trauma will help it work its way out.