二(六十一):纳妾

in #esteem-cn6 years ago

人,总有贪欲,这是被写入基因与生俱来的,慢慢地人接受了教育,经历了世事的磨砺,学会了控制。

小孩子往往是贪婪的,得一望二。因为他懂得不多,很多时候,人们可以容忍和原谅。

有个说法是:男人都是孩子。

不知道说这个的是男人还是女人。如果是男人的话,那是相当的阴险了——他在为自己的行为找合理的借口;如果是女人,那就是母爱泛滥了。

有些女性很容易溺爱自己的丈夫,把他当做大儿子来养,什么都给最好的,什么条件都答应。

社会上的很多悲剧都源于此,有女人放纵的因素,但根源在于男人的贪婪。

男人想要轻松自在,因此吃上了软饭;
男人想要惊险刺激,于是吃喝又嫖赌;
男人要享齐人之福,小三小四就来了
……

在我国古代,实行的是一夫一妻多妾制,不光如此,在妾以外,还有通房丫头,也是可以OOXX的,还不在编制以内。

如果一个男人有钱又贪婪的话,那么妻妾丫头简直就可以组成一个集团军。

那时候,大部分女人(妻子)应该是默许的,有的甚至主动帮丈夫物色新的对象。

当然,也有不愿意,严格要求老公的。

这就是另一种爱了,不骄纵,不溺爱,算是大爱了。

下面介绍一首词给大家:

我侬词

(元)管道升

你侬我侬,忒煞多情
情多处,热似火
把一块泥,捻一个你,塑一个我
将咱们两个一齐打破
用水调和
再捏一个你,在塑一个我
我泥中有你,你泥中有我
与你生同一个衾,死同一个椁。

这首词源于男人想要纳妾。

元初,中国的大书画家赵孟頫名满天下,觉得自己好厉害,什么都有了,于是在50岁的时候,还春心荡漾,想效仿当时的名士纳个妾。

图源:pixabay

他老婆管道升知道了,啥也没多说,写了这首词。

而赵孟頫在看了《我侬词》之后,想起和妻子共同经历的点滴,被深深地打动了,从此再没有提过纳妾之事。

俗话说,有什么别有病,没什么别没钱。

我觉得啊,只要有个好老婆,啥都不用怕,包治百病啊!


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👍體會到這是個人對愛情的一種執著
愛一個人只要站在愛人的角度來看就可以看到愛人心中那一份對愛的付出💕

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哈哈,相比之下,男人是低等动物😅

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