👋 hola hivers
Luego de un largo pero bonito viaje a la frontera con Colombia justo el día del cumpleaños de mi mama, teníamos mucho cansancio pero ganas de celebrar su día como se debe.
Tuvimos que correr ya que eran las 8pm de un lunes, así que todo cerraba pronto, gracias al cielo el taxi que nos trajo a casa se ofreció a buscar un pastel y así fue todo más fácil.
En menos de 20 min ya teníamos el pastel listo para cantarle cumpleaños y soplar las velas, debo decirles que estoy escribiendo esto con mucha alegría ya que tenía meses sin ver a mi mama sonreír.
La razón es porque fue un año duro para ella ya que tiene una condición bastante complicada respecto a su salud mental, no estoy diciendo que mi mama esté loca pero si tiene un diagnóstico
de depresión ansiosa severa y todavía queda diagnosticarle un posible TOC trastorno obsesivo compulsivo, es bastante duro pasar por eso como familia y ver que cada día alguien que tanto amas se va deteriorando por una enfermedad tan severa como es la depresión y la ansiedad y lo
sé porque yo he pasado por lo mismo y es algo que no puedes controlar.
Tuvimos que hacerle muchos exámenes y pruebas para descartar otras enfermedades y también se gastó mucho dinero en doctores y especialistas lo que no es fácil aquí en Venezuela, donde una consulta con un psiquiatra cuesta 100 dólares.
Lo bueno de todo es que a pesar de los malos ratos que pasamos ya mi mama ha logrado controlar esa enfermedad y ha podido volver poco a poco a la normalidad, parece un milagro pero que mi hermana llegara la ayudó mucho ya que la mantiene activa y siempre en movimiento, algo que yo
no podía hacer por trabajo, ahora mi mama siente la compañía y ha vuelto a sonreír.
Ya falta poco para que mi mamá con la ayuda de los medicamentos y ejercicios salga de ese gran mounstro y pueda volver a ser la persona que ella sueña ser.Lo bueno de todo fue que pasó muy bien su cumpleaños y que logramos sacarle varias sonrisas.
Después de todo, con el tiempo y la paciencia las cosas cambian…
FELIZ CUMPLEAÑOS MAMÁ.
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hi hivers
I am living moments with my family that are definitely special, the arrival of my sister
home after 3 years without seeing each other has united us as a family and things have changed a lot
at home, we have eaten, laughed, cried and also celebrated, these are dates of great celebration in
home and we started with my mom's birthday.
After a long but nice trip to the border with Colombia just on my birthday
Mom, we were very tired but wanted to celebrate her day as it should.
We had to run as it was 8pm on a Monday so everything was closing early thank goodness
the taxi that brought us home offered to get a cake and that made everything easier.
In less than 20 minutes we already had the cake ready to sing birthdays and blow out the candles, I must
tell you that I am writing this with great joy since I had not seen my mom for months
smile.
The reason is because it was a tough year for her since she has a very complicated condition.
Regarding her mental health, I am not saying that my mother is crazy, but if she has a diagnosis
of severe anxious depression and a possible OCD obsessive disorder has yet to be diagnosed
compulsive, it's quite hard to go through that as a family and see that every day someone who cares so much
ama is deteriorating due to a disease as severe as depression and anxiety and
I know because I've been through the same thing and it's something you can't control.
We had to do many exams and tests to rule out other diseases and also
a lot of money was spent on doctors and specialists, which is not easy here in Venezuela, where a
consultation with a psychiatrist costs 100 dollars.
The good thing about it all is that despite the bad times we went through, my mom has already managed to control
that disease and she has been able to return little by little to normality, it seems like a miracle but that my
sister arrived helped her a lot since she keeps her active and always on the move, something that I
I couldn't do it because of work, now my mom feels the company and she has smiled again.
It won't be long before my mom, with the help of medications and exercises, comes out of that great
monster and she can go back to being the person she dreams of being.
The good thing about it all was that she had a great time on her birthday and we managed to get several smiles out of her.
After all, with time and patience things change...
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