Huh, I never would have known that ... self -esteem or steem. I always thought steem in the beginning was different but really thought of steam. Funny and enlightening. Yeah ED is no fun, I had issues a few years back. Not embarrassed at all to admit it. Was out of a long relationship back in the dating scene and really out of shape. Had some issues for a while in this department. Was it mental or physical? Don't know. I did change my diet to fruits and veggies. Then I took down the invisible poor me sign on my for head that all females can see and shun. Now a cat couldn't scratch it and I'm married to my best friend. Ah ain't life grand? It is gettin' late.... too much? Ha! Never brother...... never.