you will soon be thirty and you have been in a relationship with this guy for a good four years yet he is not giving you aNY sign that he is going to marry you...
you really need to ask yourself this questions@zizymena you are doing a good job with this you brought up... I love to engage in stuffs like# Anonymous 1

1. do you know any of his relatives? like parent and siblings, does he take you to visit them...
2. did he use to mention your name in his future plan? like trust me, every guy dream of a future with his beloveth? you still don't get? like chit chat how many kids you are going to have, is it a baby boy you want first or girl, all this is a sign the guy trullt loves you q ND ready to spend his life time with you
   if your answers are no.. then I believe you got the answer and should be able to make the right decision, nobody can decide for you..
   the reason why he is so caring might be because you are useful to him in some ways and he doesn't wanna lose all that...