There are many reasons why you can get to establish an inefficient communication, between people in general, and the couple in particular.
Perhaps, the main one of these reasons, is that you never learned to establish an effective communication.
Men, for example, are accused of being not very expressive in their way of communicating. Come home and say "hello, my love. All good? I'm going to the bedroom because I'm very tired. "It could be the whole topic of conversation, leaving your partner feeling frustrated and empty.
On the other hand, the woman who chooses to remain silent when she feels hurt by something that her husband said or did, is acting in the same way by not feeling able to express her feelings or feeling that he will not understand her and that, therefore, There's no point in trying.
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But, the most serious, is that neither ends by deciding to take the step to communicate to the other what is happening, or to find the way that allows them to communicate in a clearer and more direct way. The consequence will be that they will continue communicating in an inadequate way, which will keep them moving away more and more, even without being aware of what is destroying the relationship.