Hey Luppers!
A very nice perspective you give. I'm back at work now after a year on maternal leave. I'm taking care of a dear friend of mine whose suffering from MS and is quite sick at the moment. I'm sitting next to him at the hospital now while watching your video, so I can totally relate. I stay positive, for him, and give all of my goodness to help ease his situation. And I'm reloaded of energy since I got back to work.
So this is us at Midnightsun festival last summer. I brought him to the North part of Norway to a psytrance festival on an island called Værøy (I highly recommend this festival next summer, it's spectacular). It was his last trip before he became stuck to the bed, unfortunately. He lives on these memories every day! And so do I. When we give to others, it transcends to your inner being, so yes- we are helping ourselves as well.