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No, nothing is good or bad. It's just the label we put on it. Have you ever had a situation happen to you that seemed really, really bad, but you looked back at it a few weeks down and it was one of the best things that ever happened to you..?
That's what I am talking about.

What about if someone raped and murdered your family members? I ask with all the seriousness I can muster.

Yeah of course. Everyone always brings up the natural disasters in the world when I talk about this stuff. If something like that happened to you, and you became one of the strongest people on this planet, and you became an activist for the cause, and you were able to change the entire course of the planet, because of that one 'horrible' incident, would that incident still be bad?? Or would it be a catalyst that helped you change the world??