This is the comment of the day. Love this so much and I understand clearly. In the moment it is hard to see things with that perspective but now that you have said it then I realize and am reassured that everything happens for some purpose.

And it's interesting you mentioned 9/11. My cousin who lives in New York actually was supposed to get on one of those flights but she missed it for some reason. She may have initially been frustrated that she missed it but looking back it is a blessing that she did miss it.

Thanks for your wisdom and insight @evernoticethat