You said that past times were ¨perfect¨. I assume that means you were reimbursed consistent with an agreement.

While trust is earned that way and sometimes later abused, especially in calculated schemes, I think you are right to bide time before pulling the trigger.

As a reader- I can only imagine specifics in a scenario, so what you feel may be right on target- But... for what it may be worth coming from a stranger, best results (or less unfortunate) have better odds when youŕe more able to make that decision with the pain sitting Beside you. Not On you. KnowwhatImean? You do, and thatś why youŕe venting but holding back on reaction without intuition. A good strength to have, regardless of outcome.

I do know that pain all too well. Mistake Ive made is feeding unnecessary -meaning- into the experience which has been so self defeating. Just be mindful and it appears that thus far youŕe handling it right.