Welcome brother, and when it comes to family then sometimes they sound against of us because they feel concerned us, so, if they against you may be they are thinking better for you and they don't want to see you in any pain.

But, when you think one aspect is right and it will help your overall life then in my opinion you should always calmly discuss with your family while respecting their concern. Stay blessed brother.

Happiness and peace with you brother. 🙂