Dream big or go home...what do you consider impossible? Why do you think that’s so? Maybe you just haven’t exhausted every last resource you have in your pursuit of it. What’s not happening through the use of your ego can happen through the use of your subconscious and by doing good deeds... why is this important?
If you are not helping others, how can they really help you? Perhaps they don’t know you exist, or perhaps they don’t know your intentions until you make them clear with your actions. Sure not everyone will want to help you, but those certain few people will always be willing to go the extra mile after they see where your heart is at.
What isn’t possible alone can be achieved through help from others, the nature of heaven. But those people only help out if the motive is really of the highest caliber. Otherwise, they may not take notice. That’s why you have to dream big, dream past thoughts of strict personal gain; you have to dream so loud and with such humble nobility that the heavens hear you... that’s a real dream...