99% of people who get #divorced are running away from their own problems. Important things they need to address and deal with, but they don't know how. Even idiotic therapists with concur with them as it's more profitable to be supportive in whatever they want. Running away from problems rather than stay and deal with them and learn from them will only amplify them. Typically people who get divorced get divorced again and again. Or they regret it to begin with as it complicated their life so much, they lost their family children and livelihood at best. There is a lot you can learn from someone whom you fear. Someone who is different. This isn't just about sex or attraction. This is an opportunity to learn. Its always the ones you are most different whom you can learn the most from and who can help you the most in life, they are your pot of gold don't let them go. When you don't agree with someone open up and listen. Learn from them instead of argue with them. You are not supposed to agree with everything but people want to at least be heard understood and respected. The best and most strong relationships are when 2 people disagree with one another but respect one another regardless, your ego will disagree with this truth but don't listen. Your #ego wants to be heard not listen. You have to choose this friend. You aren't together cause you happen to be traveling the same road. A coincidental #relationship is a very weak one at best as the moment you change direction you split up. #Love is hard but well worth it. Like is easy and worthless in the end. You dont need another you in your life. Find a #weirdo and never let go.