To the depths of my soul I was touched by your story ...
To your question: "Wie seit ihr damit umgegangen?"
No way ... you can not cope with it ...
Only time will help, this is my case.
But how? Pain, unbearable pain from the loss of a loved one ...
I lost from this evil disease first: uncle, 2 girlfriends, dad, then husband ...
And only after many years, instead of pain in her place came a longing ...
Will she leave? I do not think so. She will stay!
But, in addition to melancholy, you feel great warmth, love for the departed ... These feelings were before, but you take them for granted.
Now I understand much more how happy I was that they were in my life!
Memories, they will help. Since, even mentally, but again you will live those wonderful and happy times.
Forces you to withstand these difficult times.
P.S. What happened to the orchid for me is not surprising. Grandfather gave it from the heart and with love! Flowers, too, feel. Otherwise, how to explain that when I went on vacation for 2 weeks, my flower is ivy, every time for 3-4 days immediately died ...
Care for him was right from the rest of my family. And this was repeated every time I left.
In the end, I stopped buying it when I returned ...
Long life of your orchid!
Thanks a lot for your nice reply. Time can heal your soul, i know. But i think there will always be a pain inside my chest, but i can handle it. I think it´s okay to be sad about that lost and sometimes i want to cry. It´s okay and you will know it too. There are times when i think about him and smile and times where i only could cry. I was the happyiest grandchild you could ever imagine, knowing that i have such an wonderful grandfather. The memories of him are still with me and they are the best thing i had. Thanks a lot for your comment. I wish you all the best!
Thank you for your wishes!
You are happy, because you learned what grandfather means, the more beloved. To my great regret, I did not manage to find out, since both grandfathers passed away before I was born.
Wish you happiness!