Mind , the most powerful tool, if used correctly can change our lives completely, mind needs training, the more you use it, the more sharper it gets, all the experiences that we go through in our life is to make us wiser than before, we need to observe whatever has happened in our life very carefully, and understand why did it happen , how did our brain function and react at that point of time, we need to catch the learnings out of our experiences,
Or else we will keep making those mistake several times, and screw our lives, it is very simple to observe what is going in the present moment, look at it just observe and you will be able to understand anything very quickly and smartly.
And i would like to end this topic with a very famous saying:-
"Either you control your mind, or your mind controls you." 
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