What a child needs to know to feel confident

Dear parents, do you teach your child safety rules? If yes - amazing, but according to my personal statistics, children who come to school do not always know what they can and should do and what not.

Surely I will touch the sore point of many parents, when I say that how many do not teach the child to not talk to strangers, do not play in a quiet place, he is still doing things other way

I am just convinced that all parents want the safety of their children without exception, but it often happens that they can not explain how to behave properly in this situation or that. When children come to kindergarten or school, they are told about it, but in practice skills are rarely practiced and when children get into emergency situations, they forget how they are taught to act.

I think you can not divert all the tasks to teachers and teachers - tell your child the behavior rules bezlopastnogo. I highlight some of the important ones, in my opinion, the times, which I want to share.

First of all, that the boy is not in trouble - he should trust you. That is, do not be afraid to go home and tell him that something has happened to him, so as not to be punished. If the child is afraid of his parents, that's worse. The most dangerous situation can be foreseen if the child shares his fears and fears with his parents. Try to hold back and try to establish contact and trust from the child.

There are some safety rules for children that need to be carefully explained to children:

Tell the child that you can not go anywhere with people you do not know. Even if they promise to buy a clever doll or mobile phone.
Tell us who is unknown and who belongs to you or your acquaintances, and make sure that the child understands you.
If a stranger treats a child something delicious - chocolate or ice cream, then nothing can not be refreshed. Let the baby answer such a proposal: "I'll ask my mom or dad if I can get you some candy." If they are scammers, then such answers will surely scare them.
In general, try to inspire your son or daughter that you do not have to talk to strangers without extreme needs. Extreme needs are rare, but they do happen.
While driving along the road, pay attention to traffic rules, focus on how someone breaks the rules and what the consequences might be. Do not violate the rules of the road itself.

For example, if a baby is missing, then you should stand still and call your mother or father out loud. In any case you can not run and find yourself an adult with whom the baby is located, otherwise you can get enough of the place where you are.

If it's been a long time, and Mom does not come to the place where they are missing, then you need to ask for help. The best way to deal with women with children - this is the safest category of people. Yes, and teach how you can know your name and name, mother's and father's name before your baby can.

And finally, I say that there are features like that in most kids - from fear they can completely forget all safety rules, so it would not be an exaggeration to put a note in a child's pocket with personal data, address and parent's phone number. Or take care first and make small lines on clothes with child data. Such clothing pads have long been practiced by kindergarten teachers.

Remember, child safety is very important. You must be sure that when you are not there, your son or daughter will know how to act.