You know life is full of surprises brother..
It left me with one when I was in my junior class at the secondary school I wept when she was gone, the highest thing I could think of then was to follow her into the grave, that was the gravity of my pain, but here I am to console you for the same reason. Do you know that life didn't stopped with those surprises I nearly died when mum left but till now I am not dead yet even when Dad decided to follow her a year after, yea I am still alive..
In a north sell, embrace whatever you can't change, look at life as a teacher, be very ready for anything if it is in the world we are living today.
I use to tell my friends I am not going to be surprise if a rat should turn to a cow in my presence, funny but true and I mean my words. What surprises will range over the ones I've got from this world already. Just be stronger it doesn't used to be easy but trust me you will do tomorrow what I am doing today, I never knew I could stand to tell someone to take heart for their lost, but here I am asking that you please accept my sincere heartfelt condolences bro🙏🙏🙏🙏💜