Would You date a guy living with his parents in a one room apartment

in #dblog5 years ago


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That a guy stays in a single room with his parent says nothing about him, His vision and education and other factors should be considered not his parent cross the me of 3 years back believed in the theory of "love" and will say yes to anyone who proposes a relationship with genuine mind back then but but right now I can't especially with what i have seen and been through. I was dating a lady who was very uncomfortable with me living with with my mom, She frown at almost everything about my background even to the room i leave in, Such lady might not be an ideal person for the man.

She might push you beyond your actual earning or support you to sour higher, But men need to live within their finances not above because the same lady might always leave when things go south especially when you conform to her standards and cant keep up. Dont get me wrong I know some living with his parent like that but married in a room self now, There is nothing that says one cant wont upgrade, but most people are so desperate for quick success.

Mike Bamiloye of Zion said he married his wife into a room self, Look at them now they live flamboyant life and has totally forgotten about that their past life that was filled with management and hardship.

I believe this view will change in time again, If the guy is in that state and working hard to get out of that state, only few ladies can date him, but only when they see he has purpose and vision.

many ladies expects to date or marry a millionaire when they have nothing to contribute to the mans life only to lavish wat their family couldnt provide them with, i woud advise not expect a millionaire date right now especially when you have nothing to bring to the table u know you are not financially fit for him,one can believe in living ahead
you will get to a stage when one won't date someone with his/her current financial statuswe believe people of same financial status should coupulate

If we broke together no problem sha☺

I don't agree with you, that lady would have pushed you and helped you reach the top because she's not comfortable with poverty. A lady who is content and doesn't complain when you have nothing, will be comfortable with poverty and as such, won't push you to strive harder🤷🏼‍♀so basically y'all remain poor all ur lives.. I'd say.. A woman who can date you when you have nothing, but isn't comfortable with poverty and pushes you (I know you d term it as complaining) is the best lady for you😊

That was their choice doesn't mean it will work for everybody.

Like me no matter how much I love you I can't marry you poor, I want the best of the best because I deserve it.
Let's make the money together then we can Marry, I've not been having sleepless nights working hard only to suffer in marriage.

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