Life is always in phases. The good and the bad. Smooth and rough. Some times we might be passing through the negative phase. It will not always be raining season, some times it will be hard and tough.
The dark moments are not meant to kill us but to build us. This thought inspired to put up a post yesterday titled
FAILED TO SUCCEED | SEEING FAILURE DIFFERENTLY
That one has or is passing through a dark moment does not mean that the person will remain there forever. It's just a phase that will pass with time.
And within this period one needs be strong and see the light approaching from the end of the tunnel.
I could remember in 2015 when i lost my dad just two weeks to my first semester exams in my third year in the university. It was heavy but i told myself i was not going to cry because crying will only destabilize me and make me not to focus on my exams. So i had to let it go and pretend as though nothing but yet it was painful because i was the closest to my dad but for the sake of my future, i endured the pains and life went on.
So if we can see the dim light from afar, we can scale through the darkness.