Customs wedding in aceh area @iswandiaulia

How are you steemit friends, hopefully we can always share in any case, this opportunity I want to share the story with my friend steemit is a wedding reception in my area that is aceh area, mendenger marriage all circles just just different way different, in my area Customary marriage is arguably unique because it is done dengen very different way as it is in other areas.

The photo above is a photo of our wedding photo taken together before the bride arrives at the venue, the auxiliary is used for juxtaposed the groom and the bride as in the picture below.

In our marriage customs we in aceh have some stages until the legitimate couple becomes husband and wife, here I will try to explain a little about wedding customs in aceh.

Apply for Phase (Ba Ranup)
Ba This stage of applying for self in Aceh is set with a long customary umayan ie if a man who is considered mature enough already time to marry then to find a mate for the man or if a A man has his own choice of a woman to be his wife then the first thing to do is to send relatives who are elderly and deemed proficient in speaking (referred to as seulangke) to meet the family of the woman to ask the woman's status whether or not someone has or not.
If it turns out that there is no one who has and no ties whatsoever with other people then theulangke mengularakan proposal.On the appointed day both parties then the male family sent some elderly to come to the house of the parents of the women to Applying officially by bringing the betel and its contents as a symbol of bonding and strengthening. After the application completed and the entourage of applicants have come home then then the family is proposed the family of the woman conspiracy with her daughter about the acceptance or absence of the application.
Stage Engagement (Jakba Mark)
If then the application is accepted by the women then the next procession is the family of the men will come back to the parents' house to discuss the wedding day (called peukeong haba) as well as set how big the desired dowry By the bride and groom (called jeunamee) and how many guests will be invited to the reception. At the same event after all the deliberations about the size of the dowry, the wedding day and the number of guests who will be invited by the families of the two brides to reach an agreement , Then then proceed with the next event that is the engagement event or called Jakba Tanda.
In this event the prospective groom will deliver a variety of foods typical of Aceh and also other items, including buleukat kuneeng with tumphou, various fruits, a set of women's clothing and jewelry tailored to the ability of men's family.But because there are But if both parties have reached the marriage engagement stage it is canceled due to various things then the 'rules of play' in this engagement if it turns out in the end both sides failed bersanding in pelaminan then the golden marks that have been given it if that causes the marriage failure (takjadi get married) Is the prospective groom then the golden sign will be considered charred but if it turns out the cause is a prospective bride then the gold marks that must be replaced by two-fold.
Party Pelaminan
After all the stages can be passed then only the core event was held the wedding party itself. Two other processions in the marriage customs of the people of Aceh are also not less important is the new tueng dara which means the traditional picking done by the bridegroom to the bride and tueng linto baroe meaning otherwise.
After the bridegroom performs the marriage ceremony in front of the pack of kadi and has officially become a pair of husband and wife, party pundigelar to give opportunity to all invited guests who wish to congratulate the two bride. Beside that in jak intat linto baro do never forget accompanied by shalawat .

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