Ooohh.. that sucks, my friend... :-( And yes, you're right: EOS will take effort from everyone involved in this building-period, and there's no way to know how long it'll take to settle down. It'll be a while before the smoke lifts off to reveal this new blockchain in its full glory. Steemit has had far longer to settle down and mature, and even here the politics and economics aren't clear to the average blogger. True mass adaptation will come if and when the block-producers and block.one have managed to make EOS the true protocol it is supposed to be, so Dapps can be run on it without any extra effort, without people even knowing they're using a crypto-driven decentralized app in the background. Steemit came close, let's hope EOS can finish the job!

Love your strong conviction and hope you won't lose any more, but I'm sure you'll manage :-)