No mate I am afraid you got me wrong, what I meant is in the long run both EOS and ETH will be equally scalable but right now Ethereum has a huge head-start in terms of development where EOS (and all the other smart contracts platforms ) is still very barebone.

In fact there is already a race among many platform wanting to take over dapps, some of which already solved problems Eth didn't (scalability+privacy+having DEX)

I don't agree with this, Ethereum has layer 2 solutions for scalability, many DEXes (0x, IDEX, Airswap, Bancor, Kyber) and a privacy roadmap with zk-snark.

Again, given time Ethereum and EOS will both have the same features in terms of scalability, privacy, exchanges etc, but Ethereum will be decentralized and EOS controlled by block producers (look what DPOS did to LISK).