the one thing that makes me think someone is strong and has really a lot of confidence is someone's ability to admit that they either don't know something or that they're wrong
Wanted to second that quote from another vid, with one by Confucius which illustrates well one of my life's guiding principles:
“The man who asks a question is a fool for a minute, the man who does not ask is a fool for life.”
― Confucius