Hi and nice to meet you. I am Thai and my boyfriend is a Black American. We live in Bangkok and there are many Black people in the city. We have a two year old son and every time we are out and he sees a Black man he yells out daddy. One day we were in the mall and he saw a Black man and began chasing him. I was running through the mall yelling that it is not daddy. People were looking at me like I was crazy. By the time I caught up with him he was hugging the Black guys leg and saying daddy. The man's girlfriend who was also Thai then saw me run up and thought I was this man's girlfriend on the side. I had to explain everything to her in Thai and we all laughed about it. But still when I left, Daniel kept saying Daddy! So now my nickname for my boyfriend is Daddy.
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I have 3 kids so this is great story I can related to.
It was actually the same with my daughter but she is old enough to know now who is actually her daddy.
I have a story that I'm almost embarrassed to tell from when I was a little bunnypuncher that is very similar. Where I grew up was not very diverse. Pretty much everyone was the same color which was white. Today of course I try not be prejudice toward any race or ethnicity something I work hard toward and teach my children. I have coworkers and friends of many different backgrounds. So please don't hold 5 year old bunny accountable today. But 5 year old bunny had never seen a black person before a shopping trip I went on with my mother. Kids say the darnest things that is very true. I went up to this black man that I nor my mother know and yelled "Mommy there is a chocolate person."
As you can imagine that shook things up a bit for the store and the poor guy I had just called chocolate. Luckily he was a good sport and understand 5 year olds say things like that innocently not with any malice. Things ended with a group of people having a chuckle over what kids say. Now, however I have to live with my mother telling this story to almost everyone I know as soon as I introduce them to her (or within a few hours). Not a story I'm particularly proud of but since everyone close to me knows it already might as well tell it again. I no longer hold the view that black people are made of chocolate so please don't hold this against me. :)
BP