Hi everybody ! Have you participated in a contest held every day by me? My competition has a lot of participants. I presented the prize to the winner. My questions are really easy. Everyone has a card to win. You just need to fast hand and do the rules of the competition. If you have not won the contest yesterday, today will be your chance.
In the previous post I asked the question :
####Question :
What do you want most in your life?
There are many people who have participated in my contest. And the comment made me think the most, that's the account : @jcharles
Please read his comment and I believe you will choose him just like me :
What I want in life. Honestly, I'm not sure as that question is way more complex than it appears upon initial reading.
This seriously provoked a lot of thought and reminiscing. I suffer from PTSD and anxiety. When I was a boy I experienced things that could have totally destroyed me mentally and emotionally, but I kept striving and learned how to compartmentalize to endure.
With that being said, when I'm in a dire situation or a dangerous situation, I know how to remain calm. The building could be burning down and I'd be the one calmly helping others and making sure everyone was out safely with no regard to my own safety.
Yet, somehow, with that, I don't know how to be happy. In moments where other people are having fun, smiling, laughing...I just feel numb. I get so uncomfortable because things are going good. I'm waiting for something to happen.
I guess with that, I would love to learn how to really experience happiness. I have a family, I have what most consider a great career, but I literally just don't know how to be happy. There's never been a moment that I've felt it. So daily, I'm just sad, and trying to ensure everyone else's happiness because I just don't know how to experience it.
Smokey Robinson has a song, "Tears of a Clown". That could be my theme song I think. I can make others laugh, smile, feel safe...yet, when I'm alone, I'm lost in my thoughts of why I can't be happy.
Sorry for rambling...thanks for posting!
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Question today :
What is the best thing that you have done in your life till now?
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Proving my teachers wrong.
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Drawing lolis.
Making my mum happy
Best thing I have done is in last 1.5 years I tried to help maximum possible people not with money but with best possible guidance for free and totally without any personal motive. In return I just asked them to help 3 other people when ever they can... That's it... I really feel happy with my this move.
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I think the best thing I have done in my life is I have been serving God since I was kid. I became an altar server when I was still in Elementary. The thing that I wont regret doing is serving God. I have learned a lot of things about God and His Love for Us.
Best thing i have done when i saw that one nlind man trying it very hard to cross road.I came & let the blind cross the road with me.
Saya akan berusaha semaksimal mungkin untuk mencari kebahagiaan dalam hidup ini yang pastinya bahagiaku bahagiapula oranglain itu yang ingin aku lakukan sampai sekarang.
The best thing I've done in my life so far is that I've learned that life can change in an instant. In other words, we make plans and conceive our future as something real, and forget that losing your job, suffering from a serious illness or accident and many other things can alter that future in the blink of an eye.
After seeing this question I was in a hurry to join the contest and answer the question but I found out that I couldn't type anything. This question really got me thinking yes I have done some good and I have tried to help out people but the question is what is the best thing I have done in my life?.
Funny enough I cannot answer the question, maybe because it is difficult for me to answer or because all I could recall doesn't sound good enough for me. I just realized that I can do better and I appreciate you for giving me something to meditate and reflect upon.
Sorry for the lengthy write-up.
purchased food for the begger and her children and watch them enjoying the food happily. That was the best moment of my life.
I believe everyday we do some good things. Helping others or doing something to make them happy is the best thing what one can do.
An incident which took place last week. Let me put that here in short. One day I was returning to home with my friends in an Auto. We were talking about the movie which we had watched and laughing on the jokes. My home comes in last so I dropped all my friends on the way and I asked auto driver to drop me to my place. He took turn towards my locality and asked Sir you guys are very happy. What do you do. I told that we are software professional and yeah we do watch movies , dinner together etc to have fun. He said you people are very lucky but… .. .He wanted to say somethings but he stopped himself . I insisted him to speak. So he started saying his story. He told that few days back he was owing this auto but now his friend is the owner and he took the auto on rent to drive. He told me how he is managing the cost of her wife’s breasts cancer treatment and one year old baby basic requirements. He told me that he had planned to buy milk powder for her baby if he managed to save some money from that day earnings. I felt touched and asked if can help him. He refused to take my help but I insisted. He agreed to take a milk powder pack for her baby. At the end of my trip I paid him extra 300 rupees.
I feel this is the best what I had done last week. :)
The best I ever done, is to stay alive to put smile on people face.
As an Humanitarian, I daily put smile on at least five different people.
but as situation of the economy stand, my financial strength could not do what I used to do assist the needy around me with money, there putting smile on their faces.
last week i was so excited to do beyond my limit, as my pocket was I had just 100# with me, on my way to work in the morning I meet a young girl of five years old crying so bitterly I approached her to know why she was down cast, she say was send school today without food and pencil.
This popular quote came to my mind, "build a woman ,build the community ".i did not think twice about it, I gave my last #100 and I was fulfilled
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The best thing that I have done in my life so far...ummm.... Let's see.... Oh yes, frankly speaking I don't believe in remembering good things coz I believe that all good things that you do shouldn't be remembered by you.
But, I don't know it's good place to share as till date I didn't even share this with my wife also.
One day while going home from work I saw a needful person looking for food in garbage. He seems to be not mentally fit as well, I asked the fellow if he s hungry with hand signs. The person nodded his head so I paid a trollyman selling food to give food to the needy person.
For me Being human means to help others as much as I can.
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For me it was, I was told I can never have children, I now have a Son and a Grand daughter that has made my life full with love and happiness. I believe miracles do still happen, so dont ever give up hope.
The best thing I have gone in my life till now is to be a better person, I mean be more loving and caring with my family and friends, and most of it, loving myself with all my heart because if you don't live yourself first then you wouldn't love anyone else or being capable of realise the live that every person you meet share with you.