Have you tried to talk to them on #steemitabuse-appeals channel ? I don't think, it will be hard to convince them. And do not write about something, which exists somewhere else. Or even if you write, cite that source.
I understand what you are talking of, but that is how it operates and we have all rights to justify what we are doing. Same for them. So get on the chat, talk to them.
I am not a computer literate. I have no techie here now. And myself have no idea where or how to do as you suggest. This platform, as the place of interest, can carry my message to you, your message to me, and then this reply, so, why will they not enter this public forum. They hide behind their uptightness. My writings are here, not somewhere hidden from me. Let the whole community see adult discussion. Not off-scene negotiation. Personally, I don't care. Their whole attitude has put them beyond civilized behaviour. Let the terrorists enjoy their karma. If one puts force at the objective, the subjective must follow.
May the blessings be.