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call him and ask him :).. face fears to get pass them

Can't be in contact as it would break the terms of the restraining order I have on him.

Sounds like you could also use a sidearm. If you're seriously in danger of being assaulted, you owe it to yourself to remove your physical disadvantage.

if he starts looking for you, then revealing any personal details about your life on steemit is not a good idea, even if you never identify yourself, him knowing your personal details can be used to filter out who you are, by the looks of your blog, if all the info you posted is true.. it's already too late