One of the reasons communication fails for so many is because we are afraid to ask for what we want. We all have needs and desires. Some of them more important than others. The idea is to communicate what we want with the other person involved.
The moment we are afraid to communicate clearly, the thing we desire becomes out of our reach. Part of this failure for some of us is not knowing what we want. Some of us know what we want, but are too afraid to ask for it. Some of us do not know what we want. When we fail to do either of these, we are chaining ourselves to our desires.
The first step is to know what we truly want from ourselves or from another person. The next step is to conquer our fear. We may not always get what we want, but at least we are communicating more clearly.
"Express yourself, instead of repressing yourself".
Madonna, Express Yourself, 1989
Ho to communication the iphone and android! Thanks!!
You don't need to be an extrovert to communicate with others, just speak up,. Speaking with random people will form a link between you and them. that will gradually increases the communication effectiveness.
@rubysteem
Very helpful 👌👌
Thank you 👍⚘
I can't wait for the time when all people can finally say what they want without any communication barriers. :)
Know what I want and dare to ask, seek help. True!
I often feel nervous and don't know what should I talk when communicating with stranger. How shoul I do in order to be easy going in this case :)
Good advice , and so true u always stuck in place when u fail to convey what u want to do or want the other , nothing begins unless we defeat our fear.
Nice and to the point! I find The key to expressing yourself is to have a willingness to humiliate yourself. Basically give not two fucks!
this is so true, we are sometimes taken by our fear first. Worth pondering post :)
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Exactly! People are afraid to ask and it's a big mistake. Asking was the basis of success of Apple company. When Steve Jobs needed some parts for his new computer, he just asked HP, and he got everything that was necessary. It's worth to remeber about it when we are in need. Good post @rubysteem. Upvoted :)
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Hey, this article carries some great advice. I liked it, so much that I even mentioned you and this article in one of my recent posts. Feel free to check it out :-
https://steemit.com/love/@himshweta/how-to-find-a-new-girlfriend
Cheers
Himshweta
Thanks