I can certainly relate to whatever you've said in this article. I belong to a very similar background (conservative Muslim family in Lahore). The caste system, family etc. make it hard for us to actually find the right one. You've written it beautifully. Regarding the dating thing, I agree. People do use the websites of such sort just to explore what's out there rather than finding what's waiting for them. Quitting a relationship that's not working for you is fair by all means. But you're right, making it to work and giving it a try is a crucial part. You got to give it a try before you give up. Every relationship requires an effort. Good article!