I'm a parenting failure. I do not want to give advice. My obesity caused my son's severe ptsd and it is my biggest regret. I wish I would have gotten healthier before my many near-death incidents traumatized him.
I'm coming to you from @kryptonia with the same user name.
It must have been a very traumatic chapter in both your lives @fitinfun. Constantly fighting for your live will leave scars.
I am so glad it was not your last chapter! And that your love for your son inspired you to find the tools to live a different kind of life. Now many more people can get access to those tools.