It's not for you or me to say how or why something is said like that.... I did nothing imho that needs to be forgiven, but you wrote a post which you edited, which is totally fine...it is. To say you forgive me is condescending imho which I am entitled to as you are to your opinion so ce la vie........ this platform has all types, judging people and a group dynamic that you are unaware of and making a post about it is your right, I also have the right to say something, you said you wanted dialogue and here I am , you didn't get exactly what you wanted and that is going to happen, this is not always a nice zone. You have millions of dollars going around internationally and professionals in it that you are lumping into basically making me ask, what are you not saying is abuse? so far you are rather draconian and that also is not inherently a bad thing but forcing it on others imho is abusive in its own right. So good luck, I have zero feelings about this other than to step up and be civil, IF you are constantly finding fault with things then am not quite sure why you are here. Anyhow, have a nice night, adios