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the main problem is deeper than that. Most people do not have the correct combination of pain inside them and the skill to capitalize on their pain through obsession. Most people will use what skill they have to get out of a situation, some people are really craft, but they have no educational support be it from the school system, or just being around influential people.

That's true, however people can still change... if what I wrote just change 1 person, it was well worth it :)

you can only do so much!

Then it’s not even a problem. It’s not theirs and if they don’t have a burning desire to achieve something on their own while accepting the failures as steps to success - they better stick with 9-5 jobs for someone who does.