So much can be about appearances and presentation, fair or not. Btw, when I first saw your name @stackin, I thought to myself, "That's a good name. And he has an interesting, fun picture. I think I'm gonna follow that guy." Lol, I don't know that I had even fully read anything of yours yet. Kind of embarassed to admit... But proves that presentation counts, is a skill, & you do a good job of it. That said, if I see that someone is just totally self involved and doesn't care about anyone but themselves, that is a huge turn off and it doesn't matter how good their name or pic is, selfishness is repulsive.