Love,
Is an action. Is to give. Is to sacrifice.
Love is the only thing you get more of by giving it away.
Conflict,
It comes from love.
It happens not because of what we did, it's because of what we saw.
We always think we are the perfect one, not the others.
We want to change them.
Forgiveness,
It start with love,
It is to forget ourself, and to accept what we didn't agree with.
We always think we are the perfect one, not the others.
We have to change ourself.
We are always weak and selfish.
We wish the world to be what we want, we wish the one to be whom we like.
But it is love to make us stepping out, to change.
'But the right thing to say would be, If it is the Lord's pleasure and if we are still living, we will do this and that.' James 4:15
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Learning how to love needs a long time experience that you have to shape your mind to be willing to forgive and sacrifice. Being able to accept the loss from loving the others would make yourself a better, all-rounded person.
yes love is great, we should all do this!
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Great Post! Especially the section about Conflict coming from Love. If I didn't love my wife, I would not engage with conflict with her. I would merely disgard her rather than address the conflicting issue.
Its important to realize that that wanting to change the person you love is extremely unhealthy but wanting to make each other better, to complete each other is the best thing two people can do with each other. The line is not as thin as some might believe.
Very true, when we forgive others, it's actually forgiving ourselves too