The beauty of Love.

For many centuries, poets and authors have tried to describe the concept of love. Recently, scientists have taken up this task. But in no dictionary can you find the exact definition of this beautiful feeling. Although many of us guess the meaning of this word on an intuitive level. And for many, love is the main goal in life.

🌷So what is love, and how do we understand that it has come?

Manipulation. "If you love me, you must ...." Sometimes people manipulate each other and press on the feelings. But for love this is unacceptable.

Conclusion of a compromise: Loving people often make compromises, and this is perfectly natural and normal. But if your partner asks you to change something in yourself, then this is not true love. A loving person will not change your character, but will accept what you are with all the advantages and disadvantages.

Passion: Sometimes between people, a desire and crazy desire flare up. This happens on a physiological level and does not apply to love.

Love: Many people confuse love with love. This is a very strong feeling, in which a person's consciousness becomes narrower. A man in love always idealizes the object of his love and, as a rule, it ends in disappointment. Love can subside, pass completely or grow into true love.

🌷So what is love?

True love is:

Care:
The ancient Greeks had many names of various forms of love: virtue, attachment to the family, desire and common affection. But all these forms of love have a common feature: caring.

Sympathy:
Attraction and chemistry create a connection that allows people to mate. Without this romantic constituent relationship is nothing more than lust or mere fascination.

Respect:
Mutual respect is a very important part of true love. You will know that you found your soul mate when you can honestly say: "I saw good and bad your qualities, but I still love you." While your partner feels the same.

A responsibility:
Whether it is parental or conjugal love, we are responsible for each other. Knowing that your partner cares about you and covers your back, in case of danger, always warms your soul. But do not impose on your loved ones what you think will be better for them. To exercise care and responsibility should be gentle and careful, without prejudice the freedom of another person.

Proximity:
This is the decisive component of all relationships, regardless of their nature. For intimacy, one must know very well the other person and create an emotional connection with him. For a long time this connection is growing and even developing, so that two people are merged into one.