So profoundly sorry to hear this, @darth-azrael. I don't have any words to say that could provide anything akin to her love or her presence, so I won't pretend that platitudes are worth anything. I'll just add my voice to the litany: fuck cancer, fuck what it does to our friends and families, and fuck what it did to your life and the lives of your wife and children. Forty-one is way too young. :(