Stand up to bullies

in #bullies7 years ago (edited)

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Stand up to bullies. Use your power to fight back. There are many ways to respond effectively to bullies.

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Bullies come in every form and they bully just about anyone who doesn't stand up for themselves or just about anybody who is different in anyway. End bullying. Teach the bullies a lesson (without harming them please). Remember never attack a bully first. Only ever respond to the initiation of physical aggression by someone after they've started it and only always use the appropriate responds which can include running away as the first choice is possible to do so safely.

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It gets better when you stand up to bullies. One way to stand up to them is to not given them any power in the first place. Another way to stand up to bullies is the verbal art of verbal self defense, wit and sharp biting humor, "oh you're not my type but thanks for the offer anyways, I'm flattered."

A kid was bullied... and stood up for himself with self defense and then backed off. Learn to defend yourself, take an effective martial art like Jujitsu or Kung Fu (make sure it's an effective style of martial arts so you don't waste your time).

The above attack caught on video.

Usually the attacker will "spin" it around so that you're the aggressor so that is why it's really important to only respond to initiation of physical aggression as it's happening.

Interview of the little bully guy in the above attack,

Maybe it's true that the little kid was bullied but if that was the case he should have backed off as too much time passed between that alleged bullying and this incident caught on camera. That's the thing with self defense, it can only be in the moment unless extreme exigent circumstances warrant otherwise and that is far more rare and far more difficult to defend against in court if it goes that far. If enough time passes between the time you're attacked or if the attacker(s) stop you can't just go after them initiating aggression yourself as you have to cut it off following the principle of appropriate defensive measures.

Actually I had a similar experience to this large kid being bullied, I was tall (not fat) but was so easy going that eventually the bullies picked on me far too much. I had enough one day in grade ten when one of the little bullies tried to get me good and did with a skipping rope that he was swinging around as he turned in circles hitting many guys with the end... He got me good after missing me a couple times... the next time round I grabbed the end that was hitting people and pulled on it while moving to the center of the locker room and now he was being spun in circles by me as I turned... he couldn't let go since his hand was looped in the end loop... lol... and then I let the rope go...

I was never bullied in high school again although a few guys tried to start fights after that as I had upset the pecking order by defeating this guy. One guy did bean me pretty good in the hall with a rotten orange... I gave chase but he was smart to be on his BMX as I was a super fast runner in those days (ah youth were does it go). A couple of very serious guys challenged me to fights as a result of the locker room confrontation, I guess there was a sort of Edmonton highschool fight club I wasn't aware of or something but I just said I was only defending myself and didn't want to fight them.

That was the end of it really. When you stand up for yourself to bullies it's learning to defend yourself from those that violate the Non-Aggression Principle, a long standing aspect of Common Law for over a 1,000+ years. The best defense is to not fight thus running away is the best option if it's possible to do without being harmed... so suggests multiple martial arts instructors. If you can't run away or avoid their initiation of physical aggression make sure you're clearly defending yourself from their initiated physical aggression and always only use as much force in defense as is appropriate to protect yourself or someone else.