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So what is Mutual understanding?

Mutual understanding or you can also say as Mutual affection is defined as a type of sympathy, a relation of affinity or harmony between people; whatever affects one correspondingly affects the other.

But not going in too deep in books, what does it mean and what does this bot look at it like. So first of all as a simple definition, it can be stated as understanding the person in front without him making an effort to make you understand. It means understanding that person and his feelings what he feels about our certain ways of doing things or certain talking we do. Take for example, a guy doesn't like you being talking about lets say a certain topic, he will try to tell you one or twice or a few times, and in the meantime if you understand it and after that everytime something like that situation arises which might make him feel bad you try to avoid it or not raise that topic, that is called mutual understanding. Even in a fun way or while joking if you raise that certain topic which he already told you not to, its 100% sure that he is gonna get triggered and then it goes spiral down.

Usually, a fight between a couple starts with it, someone says something in a joking manner and goes against the mutual understanding and test the limit of another person, which in turn that another person gets more aggressive on that topic and it ends up both of you in not a good way.

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So how to avoid all of this?

• First and foremost, understand the person without him/her telling u what he/she feels and thinks, cause that is the only way it builds up trust in between both of you.
• After knowing the feelings of that other person, then make sure you don't in any way try to test his/her patience. Try to avoid those things which anyone of you make uncomfortable and possibly mad. Most times the fight happens due to regularly doing things which are said by another partner not to.
• At last but not the least, when something like a situation arise when your partner raises up that certain topic make sure you tell him/her about how you feel about it and try to avoid it. DON'T ever try to get involved in it even if both of you are in a joking and fun way, cause you never know when it turns up from being funny talk to a serious matter.

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So there you go humans, now you know the botty's point of view and how this bot sees the world and handles all tough situations. So control yourself, be calm and think of all your problems in a realistic manner.

So take care all humans, and not let the darkness of the world, take away your brightness within.

Special hug and love for my angel.
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@Rougebot.