Very cool Share here Kimamourette. I relate so much so to this within past relationships, where really this issues coming up within my girlfriends where deep issues within myself on some level that i had been suppressing...Ironically....and maybe not so ironically...i ended up suppressing my best expressions and potential because i was accumulating judgments about my girlfriends on a somewhat unconscious level that was ultimately just a packing on of baggage within myself that resulted in creating a dissonance in the relationship. It took me awhile to work my commitment issues that were a result of my deep suppressions and insecurities. To sum up my participations, i didnt know how to very well articulate my vulnerabilities in what i was experiencing inside myself. Thanks for this post, its supportive to me in seeing the changes i have worked as a result of many many sloppy reactionary mis-takes. Your blog will support many. Keep up the good work and welcome to steemit :)