Don't take offense, this girl seems toxic. I have a friend who was brutally raped. It took years for her to even feel comfortable around men. So many years in front of a shrink. How long ago did this happen to her? Seems way to fast to be cozying up to a troglodyte. Take care King, just from your words, you are better off without her. If she really cared for you , she would be with you. Sometimes you just have to let them go. She seems to like to get attention, and stir the flammables. Peace Man!
She was raped around July 30th, was pretty recent actually.
I have alot of history with her including a 4 year relationship and shes had a lot of bad influences and friends in her life. I know I probably am better off, but before we dated, we were neighbors for almost 5 years. I've known her a total of 11. This guy has known her only 2, and after thinking, I'm pretty sure shes gonna be living a life almost like my cousin does whos' husband is in and out of jail all the time for similar reasons. Hardly anyone will hire him, his career choice was law enforcement, he screwed that one over royally. His only choice now will be places that won't check to see if he is a felon and I'm pretty sure getting caught with meth makes you a felon.
He is the type of person with a giant ass ego, he once threatened me/ when I first met him and suspected that he is manipulating her, with "Do you know what I do for a living?". He was a punk ass security guard in a jail at the time. So I responded "Do you know what I used to do for a living?" I went down the dark path myself once upon a time, I also believe resorting to guns makes you a bitch(no offence ladies). So instead of packing one to make sure I didn't get robbed on these outings I took some boxing classes, I might get shot by someone, but I would damn sure make them know they had been mistaken trying to rob me. That was over 6 years ago.
I had left the area her and I lived in to try to resume my life in my home town, I only moved back next door to her when she called asking if I would like to go out with her one night. That started our relationship in 2010, we dated almost 2 full years, and were off and on until 2014. Our baby that was lost happened in 2012, that was the reason for the first breakup, she had been hanging with people she knew I didn't like and her reason was "I fell down some stairs" seriously.
Thanks for responding, just felt like giving you a little more insight. I used to do my own share of shady dealing, but not on this level, only pot. Some of the people I sold to were very shady and unpredictable. I wouldn't even attempt it now, meth and heroine both have become a big problem in that neighborhood I roamed, and I can't stand anyone doing drugs like that. I tolerate her and try to help her because of how I feel.
Sorry this is a mile long, I just woke up from a nap.
Also an update, her mother is very pissed off about the guy being out of jail and her daughter back with him. I suspect a good ass whooping is about to happen.