A few days ago, one girl asked me to make a blog about this and I did it. and here I had to post here.
There are some women who always attract the wrong kind of men. Let's clarify something - these toxic men are damaged.
Still, there must be something that pushes them towards you, is not it? It can not be just a coincidence. So, let's think about it.
What could be the reasons why poisonous men are attracted to you?
Here are some options:
- You have low self-confidence;
*They notice that you really do not like, so they do not feel that they should. It's easy to become someone's victim and get into that toxic circle if you do not appreciate the way you need it, writes the Mystical Level.
Toxic men fear women with high self esteem because they know they have really high standards when it comes to a man and are therefore attracted to insecure women. - You're too good;
*Toxic men will use this. They know that you are not the person to complain or show them what they deserve.
You're too good, too kind, and you have too much understanding, that's your way of telling them to continue acting like a bummer. And trust me, will. - You are too compassionate;
*People say that opposites are attracted. It sounds romantic to a certain extent, but in this case, it's just weird.
A toxical man will find his perfect "victim" in his compassionate girl, for he will patiently listen to all his problems. If you have an empathic soul, you will feel sorry for him and you will want to help him.
Most of them lie and act as if they are professional actors, just to get a little sympathy and use the situation the way they want it. But, in the end, you pay the price. - It is known that you are the person who wants to "repair" others;
*You have romantic pictures in the head of how love can move the mountains and change everything. You believe that your love and help can actually have a positive effect on him and that he will eventually change.
But guess what - it will never happen! Damaged and toxic people have problems that must be solved by professionals, not their girlfriend. - You are disappointed in love;
*Maybe you were already too hurt once. It's not easy to heal a broken heart.
Toxic men resemble those things and are attracted to you because they know it will be easier to use someone whose view of love is currently distorted. You fall on them because they are cunning and they know that I can fool you because you are so fragile.
6.You Dont set boundaries;
*You are not strong enough to set boundaries from the beginning. Maybe because you do not want to hurt his feelings and / or because you are a person who avoids conflicts.
It's your insecurity that makes you vulnerable. You must be able to say when it's enough and fight for yourself when dealing with toxic men. - You will see them as their chance to change;
*Toxic men are attracted to some women because they see them as an opportunity for self-improvement. Sometimes, they know that they need to change their toxic habits and therefore choose women with a healthy lifestyle.
But, unfortunately, this is not as promising as it sounds, because a toxic man always returns to his bad behavior.
Thank you for reading.
@blackofsky