What to do to overcome post-partum crisis?
I do not think that one day I crumble and suffer so much love. It is not that I have not finished other relationships, but I can not imagine myself falling in love so much that I can not go on.
Me and my partner together for 3 years, long talk is not very long, but enough to understand each other from personality to thought, from taste to habits. People say love is beautiful, but also broke up by the bad thing to tell. But to me, he is the perfect person, at least perfect to me, because when I break up, trying to find some downside to forget him, but all efforts are useless. The image, the memory of him so beautiful, nothing can obscure, but so the more painful, the more permeable the loneliness without him next.
2 parting just because they can not arrange their time, their work is stressful, their work is far from each other so they can not meet often. We have to accept separation so that both have the opportunity to find new pieces, go to marriage and stabilize life. He is older than me so even if I have to tear the heart, I also let him find another woman for his life.
I am a self-made and very resourceful, but standing at the threshold of losing love, every woman is the same, fallen. Then I count ... First day, I'm fine, I delete the phone number, focus on work and not distracted into it. Day two, I began to see the shortage because of the habit of calling each other today must give up. Day three, I was in the night, unable to sleep. What are you doing nowadays, do you have to cure the problem, do you eat right now, if you smoke ... Tears in your eyes, wet your knees ... Then the next day, start see the furniture in the house, where is also his gift. The pair of wedding dresses he travels to bring along. The small backup charger gave me a piece of paper "Always keep your phone in contact otherwise I will not find you lost" ... And then the cat he buys when he saw his video cats on the network, sit back near to why there is something like this lovely ... Memories are so rushed, waves in the whole heart, and the pain throbbed. I silently wrapped all in a bucket, pushed into the bed to forget.
I quit my job because I could not concentrate, stay at home and start the crisis series. I texted him, but the response was just silence. That's when I started being unbearable and everything became meaningless. Every day I cry, then I sit a place not moving, I do not sleep all night. It's all like hell. If anyone has gone through this, surely some of us have thought of death ... I have fallen too, but I fear my disappearance means never to see him. It's even more horrible than death ... I wonder if it's possible to overcome this post-separation crisis?
Reply:
1:
"Do not forget to love someone hard work baby!" I know your feelings are so bad! Having to give up habits that have been constant for three years, no one dares to say it is easy, especially since you love him so much. Sad to cry, just hate, do things that make you feel good. But! You have to be alert and be awake! Stop repeating the message to them, it does not bring anything, it will only bring the "pity", if there is from them! What are you waiting for? Go out to play for relief, the more you think about the lung, especially the "promise" of them, it just makes you more hurt. And my friend, I love the saying "what does not kill you, will make you stronger." Let it hurt you, gnaw it, let it go, it's all right. It just proves you have loved all your heart, hope you pass soon!
2:
Whether it is long or short, but once you have loved it, then the break up is always painful to bitter. That is the feeling of losing each other. It is important that when breaking up can we overcome those traumatic days in the fastest way or not?
In my opinion is to find a new person to get used to forget the old people. According to myself.
3:
I'm going through these days. It was really bad because I never thought of this end. Just hurt, just love ... every day just to try to work place plug in work, unlike all the pages on fb or share tus sad. Every evening they read a few Buddhist articles about debt relief to keep calm, to be optimistic that their debt has paid off, the time they have to go. The plan of the two of us in September about the same house after the day is prompted by the end of the end, from his defense of the gym and the hair to make a beautiful bride, what kind of dress you like, I like taking how did the wedding, from the gift he promised to take the last trip to bring back, all k again. The road is full of memories, to the whole road to his home at several times also k want to go through, k heart broken. That is, it is cruel ... Try to get to the little girl