"My" body or vehicle in this realm is my business and what "I" choose to do with it or how to use it in my reality is my concern alone. If my partner wishes to partake so be it if not her loss. No one including religious figures, especially not them will tell me what's acceptable or not. Ha! She seems childish in many ways. He's better off without her and is a much better man than I for stickin' around so long. I reread my statements after reflecting a moment and thought they were a bit harsh as I don't know these people but this was my reaction and feelings just after reading your post.......... I let it go after almost deleting it but there's always a flip side to the coin and I wonder what the rest of the story is? I do know that misery loves company................... enjoyed.