To me, life is about 2 perspectives: how you see yourself, and how you see the world you live in. To some of us, money is everything, while to others, money means little more than conventional wisdom. If you extract sexualisation from a decision and instead look at the nature of the thought given, the only thing that matters and makes sense in all of this message is how a lack of information can be considered to someone. Change begins with you: in a single moment of acceptance in how you are and what you're capable of, in turn where that will take you. It only matters if someone has little to no belief in you and your success if you don't believe in yourself. We all have greatness within us, but we dampen that because of another's view of us, and this is something that I find rather peculiar.
The concept of control is not largely exclusive to sexism, but rather to maintain and limit your capacity for growth based on the thought patterns you accept as justified. Accept your greatness, become great. Listen to judgment, become squandered. Life is what you make it, and you are unique and great - if you believe it.
We are conditioned to believe that the way the world tells us we should be is what matters, we must conform to the social norms, be the epitome of whatever demographic are naturally part of or we have had forced upon us by others in our indoctrination.
It can be difficult to undo the decades of conditioning on the individuals, and centuries of conditioning on society. However, we can take steps to gravitate to a more congruent and autonomous self, within this understanding we can start to find our way to who we want to be, not who we are told to be :)
In other words, screw everyone else, just do you , cause you are the best version of yourself when "you are you " :)
Much love and copious hugs in your direction :)
Thank you for your opinion you have a great point- everything starts within ourselves. You can build anything from scratch as long as you want to.
And thank you for your support.