Why Motivational Speech Doesn't Work Long For Us?

in #blog6 years ago



We often listen/watch motivational speech from great peoples to motivate ourselves. But in most of the cases, it doesn't work for us. That motivation disappear from us within a few hours, but why? why? Because 99% of people get stuck on below 4 steps which make the motivation vanish.

  • Lacking in decision of making change

More then half of the people couldn't make decision of something change in there life for doing that specific work for which they were inspired. Suppose you are inspired to do something and you made a decision that you won't touch your mobile or laptop tomorrow morning instead you will work 1 or 2 hour on that for which you were inspired. And those who are unable to make decision of this change get stuck on first step.

  • Rejection of discomfort executing specific task

When you will think of any change, there will be some difficulty. If i say on previous example, you have chosen that tomorrow morning you won't touch your mobile or laptop and do that specific work. But when you will try to execute, there will be some discomfort as you are doing some change in your daily habit. If someone is used to in something but couldn't do, our mind start distracting. Those who can overcome this can only get success. Rest get stuck on this step(2nd step).

  • Lacking of continuation and distraction/diversity

This thing also happens to most of us. We often don't want to continue something which harms our comfort. We work 2-3 days and get bored of it. Or sometime it is seen that we are distracted by other stuffs. This can be your mobile phone or can be your friend. You have to enforce a discipline on to make yourself run on a single specific track to your goal. If you do so no one can divert you from your work.If inverse happens, you will stuck here on step 3.

  • Inability of converting discipline to habit

You have enforced a discipline on you for your work, But if you couldn't convert your discipline to habit, it won't run long. This mostly happens in case of not knowing the future value of your work. If you know the future value of your work then you will love to do it and eventually it will turn into your habit. Lets take an example: In our country(don't know about other coutries), Army officers wake up at 6 A.M and they have to go for jogging. But we see army officer jogging even after they get retired because they know the value of jogging, they know how good it's for health.


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you can say the motivation speech kind of advice and the choice is depends on you :)

cheers :)

Yeah, I do agree.
As we are taking time to listen those motivation or advice, we need to implement them.
Otherwise this is just waste of time.

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it's always a personal choice whether we prefer to listen to well-meaning advice. sometimes, it's just a matter of pride when we'd rather be stubborn.

I have observed that for those people who are in depression use motivational speeches or motivational videos as a drug....

Actually we are not implementing on right things.We are wasting our energy on wrong side.Motivational speeches does not work on us because of these things only.

For some people motivational speech doesn't work for them because they don't have the drive to change. It only works if you implement those things that you learned out of it.

motivational speech is kinda fuel that drives our courage to do something. it works effectively till the brakes of fear are applied by someone.my car.jpg

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