- 1.Don't expect than other will be doing what you are ordering them
Everyone has other system of values and the majority from us doesn't understand it what people are offended by, when somebody isn't listening to us, and are trying to take revenge
- 2.Mistakes
From the childhood we have something like that that when somebody will do something badly then at once for him we are poking it out. Unfortunately the such behaviour won't cause that somebody will like us
So remember don't criticize but praise, because of that people really will be kinder for you
- 3.Eye Contact
You should watch at least a 60/70% of the conversation oneself to one's interviewed person, people which aren't watching themselves on other can look like liars.
Secret.
Try to watch not that much into the eye as to the centre between eyes yourself, other won't notice the difference
- 4.Listening
People like to be heard out. Never be a man which all the time is saying and wants to be right always, because these people are not liked.
When you will be gathered on other there will be a brawny self-confidence during the conversation, at your interviewed persons self-esteem. They will be feeling well in your surroundings.
- 5.Initiative
You not have to be the life and soul of the party but also don't try to be a grey mouse.
It is about so that you organise something and contributed to this acquaintance so that you weren't a person which is sticking all the time to other and he is taking but from himself is not doing any good.