It's really good that you are bringing attention to this. I'm pretty confident that most of those men commenting had no idea, but hopefully they see this post. I can understand why the men would not immediately assume it is another person though, especially since Steemit isn't exactly SFW.

Does somebody out there, with more technical knowledge than me, want to make a bot to alter viewers of her posts?

And for what it's worth, I can't honestly believe she doesn't know what she is doing. The comments make it clear how people are taking these photos. How could a parent continue to post such photos knowing how people were taking them. And with those filters I can't help but feel this may be intentional.