Your situation is really sad ... We are a family of unschoolers who live in Quebec, Canada. We have had to defend our point of view in front of the agents of the Director of Youth Protection, I know how frustrating and humiliating it is that people think we neglect our children when they are actually our treasures. .. It is so energy-seeking and scaring to have to defend our opinion before the authorities ... The laws and ways of applying them differ between our 2 countries but I want to tell you that we benefited greatly from the information and Of the HSLDA help that could also help you I believe, here is there website adress hslda.org
Do not lose hope!! I send you all my wishes of success !!