Say No to child marriage

There are two collective words of social security book that exist in the world, especially in the Indian subcontinent, including Bangladesh.

In the last year's Child Marriage Restraint Act, the country's girls' beer was brought down to the age of 18 when I was 16, I remember I was very excited about this niya. My friend Amitabh, Amit and I would have got a drink. Amit told me a story. He had been holding a Hindu child marriage as a district magistrate shortly before. He told me, "Nadia, I'm doing a good job as you do, right?" I shook my head up. He said, "No, I did not do good. The poor girl of this child's daughter can not escape the girl. He can not afford social security. Now today if the villagers of the village take the unmarried girl in front of her father, her liability does not come upon me? "

After listening to his question, (in the local language Bokchod), after sitting for quite a while, Mirza Abu Talib's "screen is not bad thing, girls do not want to go out on their own way, and if they leave out, they will spend the money!" And Rabindranath Tagore's' Letter of speech should be very careful about the liberation of the Bharati editor, "Let's talk about it."

There is no shortage of croaking of manhood. Today is not even today.

My identity is not long with social security words. I have never had to worry about social security; I was the daughter of the socially-favored family, who had never had to submit a proposal to Pimpin Piapin without any intention of giving Thakya's parents a month before going to the fair or in a school trip or school trips. Before the outside of the house, the pinnacle of the chest was barely out of the way. There is no need to read in the medieval curfew that will have to return home before evening.

But I know, most of the Bangladeshi girls from all the socio-social classes around me, whether Hindu or Muslim, have to go through this thing. Because women have no social security in Bangladesh. In every region of the world, including Bangladesh, today's respect for women is involved in their body, between two horns. And that medal honor is not respected to women only, that honor is respect for their families. If a unmarried girl gets home unwanted sexually harassed or raped, that means her intermediate honor is lost, so her family is respected to the society. In this case, noticeable, in the case of married girls, similarly the family is respected in the same incident. The difference, in the first case, comes from the family of respectable father, in the second case the honor is made by the in-laws family. But the interesting thing is that girls are meant to be the only one who is respected for the unmarried girls, and because of this, it is better to be able to live without beer before going out of beer. However, the parents do not mention this in the absence of the fact that even after the same incident happened in the beer, their responsibilities would go in between the two legions of that girl.

This happens because girls understand the burden of families till today's day. If not economically, the burden of the family on socially. And because of this, father's mother can take the responsibility of mediating respectfully to the other hand (in this case, to the in-laws and the husband), the more their day of peace! And for this reason, as soon as a girl gets older her husband starts marrying her and marrying her. It is wrong to think that if they think that they are pressurizing the girls to marry their brothers, they will be misconstrued, if they do not know about sex 'J', in the face of barking in the sky, and walking around the world all day, so one of the main presses for beer Because they are responsible for the social security of the girl, handed over to her husband and husband's family Kaira 'living'! The heart of mind is a selfish thoughts that can leave sighs in mind.

This problem is not very easy to rescue the thika. The only use of women in the patriarchal and patriarchal society is their children, who have been married to married husbands who have been blessed with the survival of their husbands, help themselves in the family and by keeping the intermediate honor of their families. As much as the girls are educated, do not be so economically dependent, they do not have the Prime Minister or the rocket scientists, nor do they want to win their use. The capitalist society maintains a market economy in order to fulfill that demand of patriarchy. Girls also dreamed of childhood Theika Bia and the child, how many Junkka designer sarees and jewelery pindaban conducted this new study, how many 'independent' after the beer, the country will go to this country will go to this happy school trip to abandon the desire to go to Mainamati secretly give up.
No, I'm not against marriage or child. But unlike the manner in which patriarchy is keeping marriage and child compulsory for women. And anti-Social Security Concept

The society which can not provide social security, thinks that society can not only provide social security to women - think it is wrong. Therefore, there is no social security, in this tenure, only women will not be allowed to leave outside of their homes and they will have to stop the social behavior of girls for early marriage. The respect of women should be stopped by the medieval thinking of the two-legged Madhya Pradesh in their body. The girls should be given the opportunity of education, and they have to arrange for their own social economic and security responsibilities, so that their fathers can think of transferring them from one hand to another.
But you can ask patriarchy to give this chance to the Cano girls? Canoe, I gave a partial answer. Because patriarchy does not create problems for only girls, patriarchy is also problematic for boys at the same time. Due to patriarchy, a girl who flows from dependent on the other, in the same way, due to patriarchy a boy is forced to become completely self-reliant. That is, the responsibility of a son is to take the responsibility of self-sufficiency and complete social economic security of the family. Due to patriarchy, the unemployed unemployed women ask new questions for the unemployed children.

Therefore, the problem of patriarchy should be to stop thinking of problems for only girls and both male children will have to come out of this concept Viagra. To establish a modern democratic state like developing countries like Bangladesh, socially and socially, both women and women will have to come out of the framework of patriarchal society after the formation of social security, change the definition of women's honor in the society, women's only child-bearing machinery and the culture of thinking of men as mere money-making instruments. THICK Both from the outside and the need to ensure equal education. The daughters of their parents and husbands should leave the luxury of eating books, and the boys will be single-minded, and the very guardian culture of throwing a foam in their mouth will be out of the reach. This society is not just single girls or single boys. So one will only give birth to the baby and one will earn only money and both of them think that 'I do more work', who is bigger than whoever is bigger than this, neither he nor he should have thought of equal thinking.
oes not change society by thinking, but it is not considered in the National Burujanga of Bangladesh till today's day. The idea is to stop child marriage in the long run, not only due to the lack of social security, but also to end the rule of denying Hindu property of Hindu girls due to lack of social security, social networking to keep women out of the house due to lack of social security. Girls should learn to take responsibility for themselves, boys can not afford to take responsibility for others.

Because of the definition and definition of social security, girls 'genitalia transforms into all-material matter and boys' genitalia-pawn tear-reading dogs and dogs.

If you do not want objects and dogs, change the definition of social security.